Wednesday, April 2, 2014

March 3, 2013


Oh my goodness-- well this is the week!! My big brother is getting married!! Chantz and Kenzi I just want you to know how excited I am for you! I know that this it a wonderful time for both of you and I am so sad to miss it!   I know that the families out here need to be sealed just like you  will be and so I will keep you in my prayers! I love you both and know that this is part of Heavenly Fathers plan for the both of you!Wow!! what an amazing experience it sounds like y'all had at the cultural celebration! I know that the spirit had to have been there and I know that it is something that you will always remember! Remember the Spirit that was there and I know that you will always be reminded of the happiness that can come when we feel the Spirit!! I just feel like my heart has been so full lately and I know that the Spirit is the only one who can make us feel that way! Well as for this week-- it has been a crazy one! For your questions Mom-- I don’t know how long I will be in Pembroke. Hopefully another transfer after this one but I have no idea.  It is crazy to think that I am two transfers away from half my mission! The time honestly just flies! I wish it would stop but I know that the Lord has big plans for each of us and we just have to hop on the train and go along for the ride!! This week has been another great one as always! I have really come to learn so much more about myself! I always have the question in my head of why was it so important for me to serve a mission that Heavenly Father took no chances and said it straight out... I know that this is exactly where I need to be and I am so grateful for the chance that I have to serve! Everyone always says it is a great time to be a missionary and that is so true! The work is hastening so quickly and, truth be told, Heavenly Fathers work is going to get done either way-- it just is our choice if we want to be a part of those blessings or not! Now for a warning… there might be some of my friends from hair school at Chantz’s wedding and if you want you can let them know that I am coming for them when I get home!! hahaha (just kidding) That might be a little creepy!!  Honestly there is so much work to be done and I love being in the middle of it!! Well we are still meeting with Adriana and it is the best! She has her kids reading every night from the Book of Mormon and we didn’t even tell her to! She is so elect! This week we went on exchanges again and the new missionary came with me in Pembroke! You could tell how scared she was and it made me wonder if I was like that... I am pretty sure I was but I am glad that I have gotten over that phase! We went to Brother Lee’s to meet with Angelique and she ended up calling us and telling us she didn’t want to take the lessons anymore. Sister Cowley wasn’t with me and I was a tad worried that my disappointment would show but I have learned so much from Sister Cowley on being positive and I know that the Lord has a bigger plan than what we see right now! She will come around I know it! I know that she has felt the Spirit and that is the greatest part! The next morning we went to one of our former investigators house idk if you remember she was the one that told us we came to her in a dream... but anyways we had an amazing lesson and we were able to get three new investigators at her house! That doesn't even include the rest of her family!! They are all amazing and you can just see how it doesn't matter where people come from or  what circumstances they are in the Gospel is always for them! It always helps! We had a pretty great rest of the week I think I have pushed more cars out of the mud in the last month than I probably will ever do for the rest of my life! On Saturday we went to Fort Bragg (a military base) to stay the night with the sisters over there! We had a meeting in Apex the next morning so we wanted to cut down the early morning travel time a little bit.  We had  to sleep on the floor and as Sister Cowley and I were laying there we only had a pillow and a blanket and we look at each other and remember that these sisters had bed bugs a month ago!!!! They said they got rid of them but I guess we will see.   We checked today for bites but you never know!! As you can imagine I think I got about 3 hours of sleep that night but kind of a little miracle-- we were saying our prayers and their neighbors had their TV playing loud and as soon as I said please bless that they will turn their TV off or that we could fall asleep quickly it shut off! It was like a light switch!  Pretty amazing! Then the next morning all the Sister leaders and Zone leaders met with President and Sister Bernhisel, the temple presidency, all the stake presidencies and our Area Seventy  --Elder Parker! It was such an amazing meeting and a little scary!   Elder Parker  was the one who set the plan for the meeting and what was said was so inspiring! I am telling y'all the work is moving forward!! Our goal is to more than double our baptisms! Every missionary is suppose to baptize 6 people a year when it was 3.7 and even then that might not be good enough!! A huge goal for every companionship is 20 lessons a week! Sister Cowley and I usually hit 19 or 20 but we see so many miracles!! Everything depends on our members and that is you all!! We plan to ask our members to invite people over for dinners to pray for families and to do all they can to open their mouths! I know that this is what the Lord needs done!  There are so many blessings that are waiting!! I am so excited to go out and see what is waiting to happen! I hope y'all know how much I love you and what you mean to me!! I am so excited to have Kenzi in our family and I know that everything will go well!! I know that this church is true and that Heavenly Father is watching over each of us! 
Love forever and ever
Sister Oliver

ps. We are suppose to get a huge storm today! The weather is changing so quickly!  It is hot all of a sudden and they cancelled schools out here!! Hopefully we have a hurricane!! It’s gonna be nuts!! Oh and this one man that we taught this week had as all hold hands and get in a circle for a prayer and you could tell he was probably a preacher of some sort... well anyways, he starts praying and everyone is prayer talking shouting hallelujahs and all that jazz!  It was pretty funny!  I felt like they were gonna start dancing in a circle or something!

pps Oh yeah and I had oyster this week and gumbo soup! It was really good!

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

February 3, 2014


WOW Happy 25th!! I wrote it in my planner so don’t think I forgot!! You know I am always good for some candy to celebrate so there should be a package sooner or later. I won’t make it chocolate since it might get there late... but before I forget about Josh... I did get the news and although I am so sad that my sweet cousin passed I am so excited that he is with his Heavenly Father! Talking with Sister Angela helped a lot because she works with special needs adults and it makes her joyful when they leave! She told me she hopes Heavenly Father is saving one of them up in Heaven for her to marry when she gets there! hahahaha   She’s hilarious!  Anyways, what I remember about Josh is that he is a warrior! He is one of Heavenly Fathers most valiant servants and I am so lucky to be able to say, when I get to Heaven, that he is my cousin! That amazing servant of the Lord, yeah I am related to him! I always loved how he was unconditionally loving whenever I saw him and if I remember correctly there was one time when we went to the movies and he held my hand and called me his girlfriend! I will always be his girlfriend! I love Josh will all my heart and know that he is perfect! I imagine he is just up there being the best missionary around.Well wowwee wow wow! What a week!  Clay you look gooooodddd in those pictures you sent I hope you have so much fun at morp! I can’t believe it is already that time of year! Carlee-- wow efy will be so fun with Ashley and Cami and Chloe I am so jealous I missed seeing all of you dance!! You know how much I love a good competition!! I am sure you all did great!! As for mom and dad-- 25 years!! As Uncle Jesse would say,  “Have mercy!!” hahah Congrats! You are the best parents I could have asked for and I look up to your relationship! I hope someday I will be sealed to my best friend!!  Well as for being a sister leader-- I was just called on Saturday and a Sister leader is kind of like a zone leader but for the sisters.  We go on exchanges with all the sisters in our zone and we have to teach at all of our meetings, so like in front of President Bernhisel!! Yeah I am scared! I just hope I remember to say “neat” and “guys” haha!  But I know that the Lord and the Spirit are the real teachers so hopefully that enabling power kicks in right about now!  I know it will so it will be great! Sister Cowley is a great example to me! As for this week-- wow it has been a little bit of a weird week nonetheless a great week! Full of learning and growing! As for Brother Goodman, I don’t know if I told you-- I dyed his hair! haha I also took out Angelique’s hair this week.   She is black and had these braid things in so she asked me to take them out. It took about 30 minutes but it is  nice to serve her because that always brings us closer to people! Other than that she is coming along.   She has been coming to church and likes everything! We always have stumbling blocks and being out here in Pembroke I have just about had everything there is-- so let them come at me! Sister Cowley always says, “If you ever want to see what is in the world just come to Pembroke!” Honestly it all happens here--which is hard but it really opens my eyes. Angelique let us know last night that she has a girlfriend so we will be working with that this week.  I know that it is in the Lords hands so I am not too worried but I will let you know. As for everything else-- we met with Clement and he is doing great! He wears a shirt now to our lessons and always has great questions! (He is the millionaire!)  As for this week, we met with a less active whose name is Maryann. To put it in a short way, she told us about her upbringing and I don’t think in all of Pembroke that I have ever heard such a sad story.  I learned a lot about the atonement this week and the whole time in the lesson I kept looking at Sister Cowley and trying to figure out how best to meet her needs.  I try to relate to everyone out here but her situation was something that I have never even imagined.  As we listened all I could think was that Christ was the only one who could get on this level and however we answered would be directly from the Spirit. I am so grateful to be an instrument and to know that I have a Savior that died for me.  He knows what I feel at every moment and because I am on a mission I am able to feel the love that He has for these people.  I am able to remind them that they have a Heavenly Father who loves them and that they are children of God. I know that Heavenly Father is aware of each of His children and that He does not want to lose any of them. I know that we are given commandments so that we can find happiness and I am so grateful to bring the joyful news to those we meet! I love this work and I am so grateful to have a family back at home! I am so grateful that I will be with each of you for time and all eternity and I am truly grateful that I can return to my Heavenly Father someday.

So a side note it SNOWED this week!! And we were all out of miles so we walked everywhere that day!! I felt like I was in Canada! It was freezing! But it was a good experience! Oh and the next couple of days we couldn’t go on the streets because they were frozen. North Carolina doesn’t have the equipment for snow so school was cancelled all week! Crazy I know but it was way fun! Now it is blistering hot and I just about sweat all day! The weather is nuts out here but I love it! Anyways I love you all!! Love forever and always
Sister Oliver